Thursday, September 25, 2008

My 50 yr old mother is piercing her nose!


A few days ago I got a nose stud in my left nostril. This is something I've been wanting for some time and I'm excited and glad that I finally had it done. However, I am not here to talk about how much I love my new jewelery. I'm here to talk about the ideas and stereotypes people have about body piercings, tattoos, and the people who are involved with these things. Before going to Chicago Tattoo Factory, my dad kept joking about how disgusting and embarrassing it was. He told me not to get it pierced repeatedly, but I had my heart set. He told me it would affect getting a job, getting into college, and things of that nature. How could one little nose stud have such a huge impact on my future? And if that were true, then what about the people with tattoo sleeves and piercings in their chest, neck, or different places around their face? The stereotypical tattoo parlor is small, dirty, and disorganized; the people: rude, haven't showered in days, uneducated. However, Chicago Tattoo Factory was exactly the opposite. It still had the same vibe as most, but it was huge! It was absolutely spotless and completely organized. There were stations surrounded by a counter that made its way around the entire room. Everything was placed perfectly where it should be. And the most spectacular part was the people who worked there. They were completely professional and explained everything clearly and more than once. They even gave me and my mom free shirts that were really cute. When we got home, we put the shirts on and went up to my dad. He still looked disgusted and asked how dirty the tattoo parlor was. My mom and I explained that it was amazing! My dad started to laugh, told us to stop joking around, and walked away. How is it that he can't even begin to believe that piercings and tatoos aren't just disgusting things and that places where they are done aren't either?

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

I missed an assignment... I'M GOING TO FAIL HIGH SCHOOL!


The idea of getting into college seems to have been twisted in the minds of New Trier students. This constant thought that if you fail a test, miss a few assignments, fail a class or (god forbid! ;]) don't take all level 4's, then you won't get into college or a good college is absolutely ridiculous. Having one of these "problems" does in no way guarantee your acceptance at a college. This includes the other way around. Passing a class with flying colors does not guarantee getting into your top school. The stress on getting into an elite school is one that is extremely exaggerated at our school. Coming from Waldorf, a small private school in Chicago, I got a different perspective on academics and college admissions. It's not about getting into Harvard or Yale or even Madison or Indiana. It's about going somewhere that you love. Somewhere that has a good department for what you are interested in. Somewhere where you feel comfortable. Getting into any college is an accomplishment. Sure, it's okay to be disappointed when you don't get accepted somewhere. But remember that this is not because your dog ate your French homework that one Thursday morning.

Yes, your grades are a large part of applications and acceptance. But also, the college you go to or don't go to does not determine the rest of your life. Remember, being able to say that you have a college education at all is more than most people in the world can do.